Embracing the Dash: Cherishing Moments and Expressing Love

The coffin is a reality that we all will face. It will sit there on display in front of the church. People will pass and look at a body without a spirit or pain. Crying will not bring them back. They won't hear how much you love(d) them. They can't repay a debt or give you enough to replace their presence. The coffin will sit there. The irony is that no one is ready for their time or anyone who gets their turn. It's always bad timing and you hope they look as close to peaceful as possible. Those moments should make you think before saying things you can't take back.

The reality is that the reason will never equate to why they are no longer with us. Days go by, and no one gets better. The toughest part is you wonder what you could have done to prevent it. Why did it have to happen the way it did? It's happened, and all we have is the memories and solace that they no longer have to worry about the problems of this world, but you still worry about them.

As much as this is about the loss of a loved one, it's a reminder to tell them how much you love them while they are here. Sacrifice the time you need to give them five more minutes of care, concern, or a word of encouragement. There are so many mistakes I wish I could take back, and they all will stay with me as I look for a solution to make up for the lost time I placed in an attitude or my own delusion. The dash between the beginning and end should be filled with moments you share, not times you compromise for another moment with them.

Biblical Context: Ephesians 5:15-16 (NIV) - "Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity because the days are evil."

Three key points to drive the message home from the provided post:

1. The Reality of Mortality: Emphasize the inevitability of death as a shared human experience. The post begins by acknowledging that we all will face the reality of a coffin someday. This universal truth transcends individual circumstances and reminds us of our mortality.

2. Regrets and Missed Opportunities: Highlight the regret and pain often accompanying losing a loved one. The post reflects on the inability to express love or make amends once someone dies. It encourages readers to reflect on the missed opportunities and what they wish they had done differently.

3. The Importance of Expressing Love and Care: Stress the importance of showing love, care, and appreciation to our loved ones while they are still alive. The post encourages readers to prioritize spending time with loved ones and expressing their feelings rather than getting caught up in trivial matters. It underlines that the dash between birth and death on a tombstone should be filled with meaningful moments and gestures of love.

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